How to choose your first sex toy

Start with what you like

Your first toy doesn't need to impress anyone: it needs to please you. Ask yourself what kind of stimulation you're after (external, internal, both) and choose a simple shape. A bullet or a pressure-wave stimulator is the most common starting point, precisely because they're versatile and not intimidating.

Materials matter

Look for medical-grade silicone, ABS or steel: smooth, non-porous and easy to clean. Avoid jelly-like or scented materials. A good toy has no smell.

Quiet and rechargeable

Under 45 decibels a toy is discreet even at home with others around. USB charging avoids batteries and lasts longer: spend a few euros more and use it for years.

A practical tip

Always pair it with a water-based lubricant: it truly changes the experience and works with everything. And if the first purchase doesn't convince you, sealed products can always be returned.